Nothing Could Be Finer...Than To Be In Our Vaginer: manifesting a new social construction or why poota isnt a whore

I heard somewhere that dating is dead.

actually it was here: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=105008712
in the Sex Without Intimacy: No Dating, No Relationships article. read it.
if yer lazy you can also download it as a podcast.

Look at this: -------->

the age of marriage is on the rise. got it. makes sense.

the occurance of the "hook-up" is rising as well, and the term is so vague it leaves enough to the imagination to cover all the possible hook-up bases. forgive the pun.

this is exactly what we are talking about. people our age don't date, they "hook-up". whatever that means. maybe we should enjoy it. maybe we should say "fuck this blog" and have people compete in a survivor-style duel for the chance to have sexxx with us.

does this mean we have to wait 5 more years for dudes/dykes/great white sharks to be serious about having a meaningful relationship with us and not just try and get away with showering us with burritos and queso in exchange for cum in the face? are we just weirdos for wanting someone who knows us first to be inside us?

i need some kind of confirmation that if i did have sexxx with someone they wont turn out to be the kind of person who uses the term "colored" and actually wants to discuss the tragedy of industrialization in developing countries and its potential environmental, social, and political impact.

also, is this article suggesting that since ladies and doodes are engaging in sexual encounters without the committment of marriage or a realtionship the social stigma of doing so will soon fade into the past, in which case, "No Poota, you are not a whore." ???