manifesting a new social construction or why poota isnt a whore

I heard somewhere that dating is dead.

actually it was here: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=105008712
in the Sex Without Intimacy: No Dating, No Relationships article. read it.
if yer lazy you can also download it as a podcast.

Look at this: -------->
the age of marriage is on the rise. got it. makes sense.

the occurance of the "hook-up" is rising as well, and the term is so vague it leaves enough to the imagination to cover all the possible hook-up bases. forgive the pun.

this is exactly what we are talking about. people our age don't date, they "hook-up". whatever that means. maybe we should enjoy it. maybe we should say "fuck this blog" and have people compete in a survivor-style duel for the chance to have sexxx with us.

does this mean we have to wait 5 more years for dudes/dykes/great white sharks to be serious about having a meaningful relationship with us and not just try and get away with showering us with burritos and queso in exchange for cum in the face? are we just weirdos for wanting someone who knows us first to be inside us?

i need some kind of confirmation that if i did have sexxx with someone they wont turn out to be the kind of person who uses the term "colored" and actually wants to discuss the tragedy of industrialization in developing countries and its potential environmental, social, and political impact.

also, is this article suggesting that since ladies and doodes are engaging in sexual encounters without the committment of marriage or a realtionship the social stigma of doing so will soon fade into the past, in which case, "No Poota, you are not a whore." ???

clairification anyone? OR let the games begin...

whales and marriage

so the last time i spoke with sunday on the fone he asked if i found "the one" yet. i was like "uh no boo. " it seems he thinks that this whole celibacy thing is some lord of the rings quest to get married, pop out a few kids, and buy a condo in florida. i just want to make it clear, to everyone, pootalatte and i are marrying each other, so that's not the point of this whole sexless adventure. the point, let me remind everyone, is to have dudes/ladies/koala bears in our lives that like us for more than our badonkadonk and tiny physique respectively. throughout these past fuck free days many weedz (those we know who just wanna fuck us, wanna fuck us first before getting to know us, etc...) have become obvious, and it's the weedz that drive you crazy. they make things complicated. poota and i try to keep things as simple as possible. keeping the people around who actually care, like those who make me food cause they know thats how to win me over, or calm me down after a bout of nasty old ladies at the co-op... that right there, easy, they're keepers. sunday also said that we could really just call our celibacy thing being "sensible", but i dont buy that. while i would hope that most dudes/aliens/great white sharks are sensible with their dating habitats, pootalatte and i have adopted a somewhat more intense version on sensibility, a more cum in your face version, if you will.