while riding home the other day i was listening to the slow jam station (it was sunday, what else do you listen to on a sunday?). the request line was open. they seemed to have an overwhelming number of people calling in for the song, "i'll make luv to you" by the smokin hawt fellas of boyz 2 men. now. while i think that this song is amazing, it's literally exonerating via the sultry voices of nathan, michael, shawn, and wayna, that they take their time with their ladies, doing what they want, how they want, when they want, etc... but what got to me was the messages left of the request lines answering machine: doodes saying "gurl, i just wanna say, i luv you, i's so happy to be with you." or " hey this is jim from san antonio and i wanna dedicate boyz 2 men... to my wife. honey i am so happy to be with you for our short 25 years as a married couple."
not one of the overwhelming numbers of callers, who were mostly men, said "hey. we make great partners, we raised/are raising responsible kids, we love, respect, and inspire each other and im just so glad i wake up next to you everyday. and that's why im dedicating this song to you."
nah. the doodes out there are saying " yo. wifey. ill fuck you right. lets stay together longer so that you can, in turn, aspire to fuck me just as well."
i know, i know. youre saying "bookcase. why are you writing so much, poota is going to get nervous at its length?" but i feel like this issue needs to be discussed.
am i wrong?
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We are two totally awesome ladies who lived the life of celibacy for eight months. It sucked but we both learned alot. Bookcase lives in the mountains of the south and is classy and assertive, baking her muffins and walking her rottweiler. Pootalatte (me) lives in the coastal marshlands of the south and I am wild and emotional, going to college and walking my yorkie/chihuahua. We basically talk about our sex lives and being single/not single/maybe single?
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ReplyDeletedoodes saying "gurl, i just wanna say, i luv you, i's so happy to be with you." or " hey this is jim from san antonio and i wanna dedicate boyz 2 men... to my wife. honey i am so happy to be with you for our short 25 years as a married couple."
not the same as:
not one of the overwhelming numbers of callers, who were mostly men, said "hey. we make great partners, we raised/are raising responsible kids, we love, respect, and inspire each other and im just so glad i wake up next to you everyday. and that's why im dedicating this song to you."
i'm confused, elaborate please. it could be that reading these twilight books have officially turned my brain to mush.
for your review:
ReplyDeleteI'll Make Love To You lyrics
Close your eyes, make a wish
And blow out the candlelight
For tonight is just your night
We're gona celebrate, all thru the night
Pour the wine, light the fire
Girl your wish is my command
I submit to your demands
I'll do anything, girl you need only ask
I'll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I'll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to
Girl relax, let's go slow
I ain't got nowhere to go
I'm just gonna concentrate on you
Girl are you ready, it's gonna be a long night
Throw your clothes on the floor
I'm gonna take my clothes off too
I made plans to be with you
Girl whatever you ask me, you know, I'll do
Baby tonight is your night
And I will do you right
Just make a wish on your night
Anything that you ask
I will give you the love of your life
I'll make love to you
Like you want me to
And I'll hold you tight
Baby all through the night
I'll make love to you
When you want me to
And I will not let go
'Till you tell me to
so. that said. why is this song the song to dedicate to your soulmate/wifey/hubby/great white shark/etc?
why? am i trying to seperate the act of sex from the act of connecting again? maybe that's it. maybe i just answered my question. ill continue on my rant anyway.
musings: is it because most men/fill in the appropiate gender/nongender/extraterrestial (committed or not) are only interested in sex and the sex they have with one person, if it is good enough, is worth being the only thing they celebrate about them?
when it cums right down to it i'd rather have someone around who i like watching grass grow with then someone who values the feeling of what it's like in halle berry. now, granted, it's estacy incarnate in there, but still.
maybe im just ovulating here, maybe my mind works way different then poota, but i think we need to take some time and redefine what/who came first: great sex or the plant/time continuum
and yes. reguardless. the twilight series has turned your brain to mush.
so you would rather boys 2 men sing about how grateful they are that you did their laundry and put food in their refridgerator and picked them of from work rather than how they want to give you the best orgasm ever? personally i wanna hear about the orgasm. just sayin.
ReplyDeleteNo no no. Maybe I've not been clear enuf. The disconnect that results from one person in the relationship valuing the sex in the relationship and the other wanting other forms of appreciation is what I'm getting at.
ReplyDeleteAnd I want both. I want boyz 2 men to sing abour how i give and receive the best orgasms AND have how nice I am for cooking etc.